Grounded

A 28-day Guide for Nervous System Regulation

Daily Regulation Tools Cheat Sheet

  • Breathwork: Try box breathing (4-4-4-4) or longer exhales.

  • Somatic Movement: Shake it out, stretch, sway, walk.

  • Co-regulation: Safe people, pets, nature, music.

  • Sensory Tools: Aromatherapy, weighted blanket, fidget item.

  • Thought Shifts: “I am safe now.” “I don’t have to rush.” “My body knows what to do.”

DAILY PAGES (28 total)

You’ll repeat this structure for each day:

Morning Grounding

  • Body scan: What am I feeling physically?

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  • Emotion check-in:

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  • Word for my nervous system state:

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  • Today I want to support myself with:

Movement ☐ Breathwork ☐ Rest ☐ Boundaries ☐ Connection

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  • Intention / mantra for today:

“I am safe to feel and heal.”

Evening Reflection

  • What helped me feel regulated today?

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  • What activated or dysregulated me?

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  • How did I respond to that moment?

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  • One thing I’m proud of today:

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What will I carry into tomorrow?

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Tracking Page (Color or Fill-In Style)

Nervous System Growth Tracker

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Color in a symbol (heart, spiral, circle) each day you feel moments of regulation or connection with your body.

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End-of-Journal Reflection

  • What have I learned about my nervous system?

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  • What patterns have I noticed?

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  • What support tools work best for me?

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  • One compassionate message I want to remember:

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Notes / drawings / extra space

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WEEKLY REFLECTION PAGE (repeat x4)

Weekly Nervous System Check-In

  • This week I mostly felt: (Fight / Flight / Freeze / Fawn / Safe)

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  • Moments I felt safe in my body:

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  • Challenges I noticed:

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  • What helped me return to regulation?

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  • One thing I’ll try next week:

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